White women, sit down before you digest this. And I mean that with the full love of truth and the…
Centering whiteness is one of those things that can happen so fast in a conversation that by the time everyone…
Centering whiteness is one of those things that can happen so fast in a conversation that by the time everyone…
White supremacy culture is sneaky because too many people only know how to recognize it when it is wearing a…
White supremacy culture is sneaky because too many people only know how to recognize it when it is wearing a…
Some stories are not just about taxes. Some stories are about power looking at accountability and saying, “Not today, not…
Some stories are not complicated because the facts are hard to understand. They are complicated because the people in power…
White privilege is one of those phrases that makes some people act like you just walked into their house, kicked…
Some stories are not complicated because the facts are hard to understand. They are complicated because the people in power…
White privilege is one of those phrases that makes some people act like you just walked into their house, kicked…
There are some stories that make you stop and ask one very simple question: why did we need a vote…
Yesterday, folks online were celebrating what looked like a rare moment of backbone: a Hampton Inn in Lakeville, Minnesota reportedly…
These portraits are shot like an interrogation room, not a magazine spread. Harsh light, unforgiving distance, and zero effort to…
Welfare is an economic issue, not a racial one. Let me be clear. What is happening right now is a…
Welcome back to Microaggressions and Margaritas, where I unpack the delightful chaos of living in a “quiet” neighborhood that somehow…
A whole lot of people are comfortable with racism not being a dealbreaker. That is the point. In 2025 we…
Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Davone Madison. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation,…
You’ve likely seen the image with a bold text stating, “If one trans shooter makes you think all trans people…
Back in 2016, I found myself brokenhearted after a painful breakup with a girlfriend who wasn’t good for me and…
When people step into our home, they always admire the art. Recently, we purchased a new piece by Washington D.C.…
Life After 50: My Ultimate Guide to Enjoying Music Festivals in Style If you told me 30 years ago that…
When I first moved into this quiet little neighborhood with PJ , I thought I was signing up for peace,…
This past week in therapy, PJ and I had to unpack a disagreement that left us distant for almost two…
In therapy, PJ and I were introduced to something called The Sound Relationship House by our therapist who we love,…
One of the most impactful lessons our couples therapist has shared with us is the idea of the Love Bank.…
Let me set the scene. It was the middle of the pandemic. The world was on fire. Literally. Borders were…
When we first started creating content, we had no idea just how many photos of ourselves we’d need. We used…
As I ventured deeper into the digital realm, embracing the roles of a podcast co-host with PJ, a blogger on…
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Meg and I just came back from our first adventure together, and while it went well, I must admit I…
This is the story of two Black women, myself and Brandi Smith. We both hail from Queens, NYC, and identify…
My Journey to Friendship in Chicago As life would have it, I found myself moving to Chicago three years ago,…
I’ve packed up my life in Far Rockaway, Queens NY, and set my sights on a fresh start in the…
I’m Davone, or just “Day” for short, and I’m excited to welcome you to my very first blog entry. If…


































